Bio of London Dominatrix Commander Sophie

My Story

A list of BDSM fetish activities does not tell you much about my fetishes. So my story will open the space of my kinky mind. The main thing is if you can connect with me, from there anything is possible. So take a few minutes and read.

I was born in Germany, ancestors in uniform with their grey looks hanging from the wall. The private school I attended was very strict. I perfected the art of playing tricks on the teachers without getting caught. In our house, we had servants, who I knew how to treat right 😉

At University I learned to harness my endless fantasies in order to gain more depth. The study of psychology taught me how to see through somebody and I gained the weapon of manipulation.

I aquired the techniques to explore my shadows: going down step by step into the rings of hell. In my early 20’s, I was seriously masochistic and submissive. I was known in the BDSM scene as quite a slut (but always played safe). From one day to the other I hated it! And I discovered my dominant side as an endless well of pleasure.

Seven years ago I started to practice yoga and meditation daily (which I still do). I mixed it with sex and I learned how to get much more deep orgasms. I might pass this knowledge to you, if I think you deserve it. This is meditation as concentration only — nothing ‘religious’.

I am into the spiritual side of leather. You will be surprised how well they go together with BDSM. Pain is known to be cleansing, but I can only offer to work with you in that way if you have a spiritual teacher who takes care of you. I will not open anyone to these energies and do not have the abilities to guide yet.

I like reading philosphy, history, novels. I am always happy for book references, which we might integrate into our scenes.

I travelled to one of those unstable countries for a job and had to pass through the warzone. Afterwards, I became obsessed with war movies and read blogs of soldiers. I found out how interesting it is to play with one of the things that forms this world more than you think. It is still present in our collective unconscious and we can bring it up like in a therapy session. It is liberating. I am definetly not a racist in real life! If I had lived during WWII, I would have been a victim, because I am bisexual and a free spirit.

I am getting trained in wrestling and martial arts. I love to overwhelm someone, it is especially fun since I am 5’10” tall!